The pros and cons of living in a care home, at home or with family

At CareDocs, we aim to make sure that all patients who are entitled to receive care, have a clear and thorough care plan laid out. However, it’s important that the patient who is receiving this care is living in the most suitable environment, whether this is living in a care home, living at home, or living with family.Below we have discussed the advantages and disadvantages of each of these care options, to help show the key differences these types of care offer.

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Pros & cons of living in a care home

When someone begins to need regular care, one of the most important decisions families face is choosing the right living environment. However, it’s important that the person who is receiving this care is living in the most suitable environment, whether this is living in a care home, living at home, or living with family. It can be difficult to decide which is the most suitable option, as each provide unique positives and negatives. However, it is paramount that the correct option is chosen as the resident must be safe and receive the appropriate person-centred care. Below we have discussed the advantages and disadvantages of each of these care options, to help show the key differences these types of care offer.

CareDocs Blog Best Practice and Advice The Pros and Cons of a Care Home Living at Home and Living with Family

What is a care home?

A care home is a residential setting where a person lives full-time and receives support with daily living, personal care and, where needed, nursing care. The residents of a care home receive accommodation, care and meals, and have a room to themselves and family and friends are allowed to come and visit them.

Advantages of living in a care home

  • Fully trained and qualified staff caring 24/7 – This is viewed as a massive pull factor in choosing a care home as having care available all hours of the day helps ensure the person is safe and supported at all times.
  • Residents will never be lonely – Living in a home with other people of a similar age allows friendships to be made. Most care homes also run social activities for residents, allowing them to socialise and enjoy the time spent living in a care home.
  • Meals provided – The resident won’t have to deal with the stress or responsibility of having to cook their own meals. All meals are provided for the residents, with all nutritional needs met, making sure that a healthy lifestyle is carried out by all residents.

Disadvantages of living in a care home

  • Sentimental value of leaving their home – Sometimes the resident may not want to leave their home and live in a care home due to sentimental values, or because they feel like they are losing their independence. However, it’s often for the best that they move to a care home, and to make it as smooth a transition as possible, make sure that the resident takes with them their belongings, familiar items and has access to the things they enjoy doing, such as watching TV.

  • Guilt from the family – Often when a family have to decide to put a loved one in a care home, they feel considerably guilty. However, with structured and frequent visits, planned days out with the family member and keeping in contact through video chats or email, the family can maintain a strong relationship with their family member.

What is living at home?

This is when a person remains in their own home but receives visits from professional carers to support daily activities. They don’t require as extensive care as people who live in a care home as they are still independent and also have freedom in general daily life.

CareDocs Blog Best Practice and Advice The Pros and Cons of Living at Home

Advantages of living at home

  • Independence – For the member to still be living at home, they will still feel like they are independent and not relying on anyone else.
  • Stay in contact with family and friends – Living in their own home will allow the person to stay in touch and visit their friends and family as they have their own independence and aren’t under the regulations of a care home.

Disadvantages of living at home

  • Can be lonely – A member living at home can sometimes make them feel lonely as they have no company nor anyone to spend time with, especially if they live far from their family.
  • Can be vulnerable – Living at home alone can make the member vulnerable and at risk.
  • The person might not feel comfortable with carers coming into their home – Having frequent visits from a carer may not relax the person as they might not feel comfortable with the idea of having someone coming into their house.

It’s worth noting that living in a care home and living at home with a carer regularly visiting requires a care plan to be created. 

What is living with family?

This is when the member permanently lives with their family.

Advantages of living with family

  • Not alone – The member always has company and will rarely get lonely.
  • Help with housework – It depends on the health of the family member, but if they were capable of helping with housework, it could take some stress off the family and provide a routine and activity.

Disadvantages of living with family

Each type of care has advantages and disadvantages. The most important factor is choosing the setting that best supports the person’s safety, wellbeing and quality of life.

  • Less space – Someone else living in the same house takes up a considerable amount of space. It’s not just a person now living in the house; room for their bed, clothes and other possessions need to be found.
  • Test relationships – Living 24/7 with family members could increase tension as the family may not be used to particular habits of the relative and cause the relationship to deteriorate.
  • Family member could become a full-time carer – If the  member has specific needs, a member of the family risks becoming a carer for the without even realising it, which could be something they might not be prepared to do.

Each type of care has advantages and disadvantages. The most important factor is choosing the setting that best supports the person’s safety, wellbeing and quality of life. A care home is often the most popular method of care as it ensures all elements of care are taken into consideration. However, before deciding which type of care you intend to use, make sure that all options are considered and valued, so that the individual receives the best care that is needed to fulfil their requirements.

Good care relies on clear communication, accurate care planning and up-to-date records that staff and families can trust. Digital care records now play an important role in helping care teams coordinate support and keep information consistent across shifts and professionals.

CareDocs DSCR supports care providers in delivering safe, person-centred care by helping staff record and share information securely and in real time.

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Introduction to person-centred care

Originally published on November 9, 2018
Article updated on February 24, 2026

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